Monday, January 9, 2012

Live Without Regret

In giving a run-down of her weekend, Madelyn said, "I didn't listen." As young as she is, a month away from being three, she had been processing what her lack of attention meant with regret. It's hard to know she's weighed down by her regret, so, I tried to help her let it go. The thing is . . . the love we have for Madelyn is incredibly huge, none of us want her to carry the weight of regret, we want her to learn from it . . . and move forward with freedom.  But.  No one escapes the power of regret, not even an almost three-year old.
Regret is produced from looking backwards, seeing how specific choices led to a disappointing, distressing, and even a disastrous outcome.
Regret becomes an obstacle to living freely.
Regret must be surrendered in order to move forward. 
Relief from the weight of regret comes through intentionally letting it go:
 "Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle, and you will find rest for your souls.
For my yoke fits perfectly, and the burden I give you is light." (Matthew 11:28-30, NLT)
Christ will use our regret to teach us the way to live in wholeness and Christ will take the weight of it, freeing us to move forward.  When the weight of regret is gone, we receive supernatural peace as well as the gift of wisdom, enabling us to move in a new direction.  It's what supernatural transformation is all about.
But.  There's a difference between knowing Christ lifts the weight and pressures from your personal regret and believing He will take your stuff on. Living free from the weight of regret requires you to surrender with confident belief 'God's got it," with a view of you as a prized possession not a failure.
We can be sure, no matter what we've done, God wants and will take the weight of our regret, enabling us to move forward: He chose to give birth to us by giving us his true word. And we, out of all creation, became his prized possession (James 1:18, NLT). 
You are Christ's prized possession . . . through a never-ending love Christ will teach you lessons from the regret . . . taking the weight of regret away . . . when you surrender it all.
Learning to Kickstart the day living without regret.
Kerrie
(written by Kerrie Carlisle Palmer © 2012 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED)

Friday, January 6, 2012

Live . . . Pray

I meet with individuals who face impossible situations.  I mean they're days are filled with the kind of stuff that no one wants to face, let alone live in.  And.  There are many times they just walk away from it all.   It all seems too hard to keep on living in the impossible.  But.  I've seen the miracle of transformation.  Though sometimes it's hard to imagine, if, we trust God has something more, walking through the day with confidence God will bring all the details together, we will have the power of hope  to proceed.

Consider what happened to Solomon:
Then the LORD appeared to Solomon in the night and said to him:"I have heard your prayer,and have chosen this place for myself as a house of sacrifice. (2 Chronicles 7:12, NRS) 
Regardless of who we are and what we are facing, we need to pray more, with the belief all things are possible, including the most impossible situations, trusting all things will be made new, remembering all things, the good and the bad, will work together with a divine purpose, living in the realm of divine power, refusing to fear, walking in faith despite what it may seem like, knowing God has heard our prayer and is working on our behalf.
  • Think about 2 Chronicles 7:12:  God told Solomon that his prayer was heard and answered.
  • Think about it again:  God listened and responded.
  • Pray.
  • Pray throughout the day with unwavering faith that God hears and answers.
  • Pray more.
Learning to Kickstart the day in prayer.
Kerrie

(written by Kerrie Carlisle Palmer © 2012 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED)

Thursday, January 5, 2012

Live Successfully and Prosperously

Tim worked with one of my friends yesterday, however, he had no idea she was 95 because of her youthful attitude and passion for her life.  I consider my friend, Dorothy, to be one of the most successful individuals I've ever known.   The thing is . . . when we attach the word, success to a person . . . the word, prosperous, is often also used.   And.  My friend is unusually prosperous.
Before you read on think about these two words: successful and prosperous.  What is your first thought about an individual described as successful and prosperous? 
Most of us often first think of possessions, position, or power.  Or, all three of these components in some form.  But.  These three elements are not what success and prosperity are derived from in God's definition.

Consider success and prosperity through the eyes of God:
Be strong and very courageous. Be careful to obey all the law my servant Moses gave you; do not turn from it to the right or to the left, that you may be successful wherever you go.  (Joshua 1:7, TNIV).

Take a long look at Joshua 1 and focus on it.  There are three things to consider when it comes to God's view of success and prosperity: strength, courage, and obedience to God's word. All three of these components are contingent on believing God is God and not settling for less.

While the stuff of life comes at us quick and hard we need to understand it's possible to be successful and prosperous in not only the good times but the worst of times when we are strong, courageous, and obedient to God's word:
  1. Strength comes through the power of Christ:  I can do all things through Him who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13, NASB). Note:  He gives power to the weak and strength to the powerless (Isaiah 40: 29, NLT).  
  2. Courage is an active decision of belief, ignoring whoever attempts to place fear in you:   But Jesus paid no attention to what they said. He told the synagogue leader, "Don't be afraid; just believe"  (Mark 5: 36, NCV).  
  3. Obedience to the word requires talking about it, meditating on it, and carefully doing what God says to do in it:  Keep this Book of the Law always on your lips; meditate on it day and night, so that you may be careful to do everything written in it. Then you will be prosperous and successful (Joshua 1: 8, NIV).  

Be strong, courageous, and obedient to God's word and you will have a successful and prosperous day.
Learning to Kickstart the day to live successfully and prosperously.
Kerrie

(written by Kerrie Carlisle Palmer © 2012 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED)

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

Live Free of Worry and Stress

Some friends have made decisions, which will impact the rest of their life.  Their future is unknown. It would make sense for them to worry.  But.  They have refused to enter into the realm of worry, determined to trust God for all things.  Worry takes away the gift of the day, disrupting our faith, changing the way we see and respond to life, eventually paralyzing us. But.  Worry only has power, if, we allow it to do so.  Yet.  We worry, or as most of us refer to it, we “stress.”
The thing is . . . stress creates havoc in us . . .  and the world. 
In fact, Duke University stated in a report that stress will be the "second-largest contributor to the global burden of disease by the year 2012"  (http://today.duke.edu/2011/11/stressedout).  It's a big problem.

Consider. 
Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done (Philippians 4:6, NLT).

God does not dwell in the realm of worry and stress; however, it's our choice to dwell in it.  Refusing to dwell in worry and stress is a matter of believing God will not leave or fail you, trusting God to work all of the details out, anticipating God has something more for you, and thanking God for all He has done and is doing for you.  So.  In order to receive supernatural peace, we must intentionally and willfully walk away from any worry and stress stirring within us, which is not of God, and move into the realm of His presence.
When we step into the presence of God through prayer, we receive a powerful peace, which  heals and restores us from the disaster worry and stress produces. 
Philippians 4:6 describes the steps to live free of worry and stress:
Don't worry about anything.
Pray about everything.
Tell God what you need.
Thank God.

Learning to Kickstart the day by living free from worry and stress.
Kerrie

(written by Kerrie Carlisle Palmer © 2012 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED)

Tuesday, January 3, 2012

Live Fully

I've always been a student of the road when we're on trips.  I study landscape and houses along the way.  My interest in every house is the story it tells about the occupant(s).  Whether it’s well-kept, run-down, or has a yard full of junk, there’s an individual or family who lives there with high energy, excited for the day, grateful for life, living to the fullest or not.  Their unique experiences form their reality, giving the reasons to why they are there, good or bad.  I wish I could tell you that I pray for every home along the way, it sounds much more holy and pure.  But.  I don’t.  However, there are some that catch my attention, causing me to pray right then and there.   It happened yesterday as we traveled home from the Oregon coast.  I saw a home that caught my breath, taking my full attention.  The house itself was exquisite with beautiful landscaping.  But. It was the barn that I will never forget, not because it was freshly painted and well maintained, which is unusual for where we were, but because what was above it’s doors, high enough to be seen throughout the country-side: a meticulous, painted swastika, the universal symbol of hate.

It made me wonder about the people who owned the property. What caused these meticulous people to hate?  Had hurt turned into hate?  Were they taught hate?  What happened?  The thing is . . . their perfection revealed purposefulness . . . in their hate.

At day's end, hate is the loneliest place to be, a place of darkness, a place far from God, where living to the fullest is missed.  While displaying hate may seem far from your own life, it’s often closer than most think about.  I’m talking about hate for self.  Hate is often pushed down, covered up, and denied. Yet.  Over the course of time, it comes to the surface, displayed in behaviors, disseminating the gift of life.  Hate most often is produced from hurt, weighing an individual down, causing pain for self and others. But.  God always makes a way out of the darkness into the light.

Consider:
In their misery they cried out to the Lord,
       and he saved them from their troubles.
 He brought them out of their gloom and darkness
       and broke their chains.
Let them give thanks to the Lord for his love
       and for the miracles he does for people. (Psalm 107:13-15, New Century Version)

There’s a powerful transformation, which begins when we call out to God.  Through a power that changes darkness into the light, hate into love, brokenness into wholeness, we are freed from the chains that prevent us from living fully.

Determine to live fully this New Year.
Call out to God.
Focus on one specific thing in your life, which has constrained you from experiencing the “more” of God.
Intentionally live in the power that will break you free of whatever is weighing you down.
Thank God throughout the day for the miracle of living free, even before you fully experience life.

Learning to Kickstart the day living fully,
Kerrie

(written by Kerrie Carlisle Palmer © 2012 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED)

Monday, January 2, 2012

Live New

We've had quiet and beauty to begin our New Year, staying at the coast, in a friend's house in Netarts Bay with a view of the water and mountains.   It's been the kind of get away that seems like it just started, the kind that you always want more time.  So.  It's been good; however, too short.  When we get back, we will step into busyness, unpacking, getting ready to go to work, putting Christmas decor away, and running to the store for groceries. It's always a challenge to enter back in to the stuff of life.  But.  The thing is . . . I want to start this New Year . . . as new.
A New Year signifies new beginnings.  It's a choice to live new, to not be slowed down or overwhelmed by the old.  To live new, we must think and act new.   It's how we're created to live the day.   
Consider.
Behold,
the former things have come to pass,
Now I declare new things;
Before they spring forth I proclaim them to you (Isaiah 42:9, NASB).

God has declared new things before the new has come into our life.  There's a mindset of new, which requires us to let go of the old and "unnecessary stuff" in every area of life. When we focus on the new of God, our response to the day changes.  It requires taking our focus off the stuff, letting go of such things as fear, gult, bitterness, and unforgiveness which distort our perception, through faith that God makes all things new.
Living new requires action, refusing to be comfortable with the old, refusing to let the old have power to hinder us from living in the new God has declared.  
Think about it: God has declared the new things.  So.  It's not a matter if new exists, but rather what we do with the old things.
Remember God makes all things new.
Let the old go, welcome in the new work of God in every area of your life--with God, with others, with your health, with your finances, with your work, with all things---live new.

Learning to Kickstart the day by living new.
Kerrie

(written by Kerrie Carlisle Palmer © 2012 ALL RIGHTS RESERVED)